Sunday, July 20, 2014

Instagram Update

You know how when life gets busy and you're spinning a few more plates then normal?
How do you react?  I always feel a bit untethered and disconnected.

That's how I'm feeling about now.  There is nothing major going on.
(Don't worry, Mom.)  Just life stuff, a few things up in the air.

I thought I'd give you a little instagram update on what's going on around here
on a more personal level.  I miss connecting with you.








1//  I'm still struggling with balancing the blog with full-time work.  I made a commitment about a year ago that I would respond to every comment that you leave me and I hate that I'm so behind on that.  I hope you know that I read and appreciate every comment.  I will get caught up soon and I'm still committed to responding to each one.   As always, thanks so much for reading and commenting.

2//  Thank you to those of you who voted for me in the Britmums Brilliance in Blogging Awards. I went to the awards ceremony and it was great to catch up with some fellow bloggers. Congratulations to Gretta for taking home the award!  Well-deserved, my friend.  




3//  My job is in such a great area of London.  Taking my lunch and a book to a local church yard is a great way to break up the day.  Speaking of work, I've been there four months now and I love it.  I really respect the organization and enjoy my coworkers.  However, that's one of the things that is still up in the air. I'm currently on a six month contract and it hasn't been decided yet  if they are going to retain my position or not.  So, the thought of finding a new job is one of the additional plates that I'm spinning.

4//  Achilles tendinopathy was the final diagnosis, and my foot is feeling much better.  The physiotherapy helped immensely. As long I do my stretches and exercises, things are good.  Wearing tennis shoes (trainers) with work dresses isn't the best look.  But, I can get away with it in London.  With a three hour commute each day, usually spent standing up, shoes are pretty important.  Ballet flats just don't cut it. 




5//  That crazy commute is soon to be a thing of the past.  One of those other spinning plates is an upcoming move.  Blackheath is lovely, but we are just too far out.  The commute is cumbersome and exhausting at it's worst.  It keeps us from getting out to enjoy London as much as we would like.  So, it's back to central London for us.  We went flat hunting yesterday and saw a few possibilities.  Then our wonderful agent (Jack at Drake Lettings) squeezed in one last viewing before running off to his next appointment.  Let's just say that I might have shed a tear.  After convincing Matt that a quick decision is sometimes just the best way to go, we made an offer.  Fingers crossed!  If we get it, I can't wait to tell you more about it. 

6//   We did spend a few hours considering, discussing and exploring the area before making the offer.  And what better way to do that then a pub crawl around the neighborhood.  We found some really good candidates for our new local.  But then we found a pub with air conditioning!!!  Considering the heat wave that is baking London currently, that might have been the deciding factor.  I love London and I miss the warmth of Texas, but London at 86 degrees is a challenge considering AC is nearly non-existent and personal space is limited.



7//  I really don't want to complain too much about the heat.  It's been a nice change and we are really enjoying a London summer. We've been to some fun events with Matt's work.  He works with such a great group of people.  We attended a Bumpkin Summer Garden Party and also an A-list event at the Serpentine Gallery where there was a lot of celebrity spotting.  I was mingling with actors, models and was within a few feet of two princesses.  It was definitely a "how did I get here" moment.  I'll tell you a little more about it in a future post.

8//  We celebrated the fourth of July complete with s'mores and a campfire.  We have made some amazing friends here in London.  I feel so very blessed to have these people in my life.  They are wonderful, intelligent, creative and so much fun, from all walks of life and different countries.  I miss my family and friends from home every second of every day.  I'm so lucky to have friends who know exactly how that feels.  They make life in London so special.





8//  It looks like I'll be seeing family and friends back home very soon.  My Sugar Bear is getting married!  I know, can you believe it?  I haven't met him yet, but he seems like a terrific young man and I've never seen Jessica happier.  So a wedding is in the plans for early next year.  I might have to make a trip home before then to help with plans and meet this guy in person.    

9//  Some might say this is all moving fast, but I can't say a word.  I don't have a leg to stand on since I knew after the first day that Matt was the one for me.  We were married three months later and I love the life that we're building together.  There is no one I'd rather be spinning plates with.  Luckily, it's not all plate spinning.  We have two upcoming trips planned, a city break in Germany this month and a long weekend in Mallorca next month.  I can't wait.  Of course, Instagram will be involved if you want to follow along. 






So, that's what's up with the Jones lately.


What's up with you??  Spinning any plates?  Any big news?




Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Our little island in Provence

I'm finally getting around to editing the thousands of photos from my
girls' trip to Provence with Erin, Gina and Sarah.

I probably should just condense it all down to a few posts, but I just can't.
It was absolutely perfect.  Relaxing and wonderful.
I want to savor it and remember every bit of it.
Full of laughter and sweet moments.

I love these girls dearly.

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

First, let me tell your about our island. 
Île de la Barthelasse is an island just outside the city of Avignon in the river Rhone.
It's one of the largest river islands in Europe and was our own little paradise.
 
The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

We traveled to Provence by train and I was a little nervous at our decision not to
rent a car once we got there.  But it was the best decision.
Sure, it meant a few taxi rides.  But it also meant some lovely country walks.

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The dappled sunlight shining through the trees.
Telling stories, sharing secrets and laughing so hard we cried.
Singing at the top of our lungs as we walked down the middle of the road.

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

 It brought me straight back to my childhood, time spent with sweet friends and cousins.
Country walks with not a sound but the music of the insects or the random bark of a dog.
Following a trail and having no idea where it might end.

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

Not a care in the world.  No reason to rush or worry.
Plenty of time to stop and enjoy the sunset over gorgeous Provence.

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

The Barthelasse island in Avignon, France, Provence

This is now my happy place.

 What travel experience takes you back to your childhood?

Erin has already started writing about our trip and is way ahead of me.
Check out her blog at Erin Out and About.



Monday, July 14, 2014

Food, Photography and Smiles

A few weeks ago I was invited to a photography workshop taught by
award winning photographer, Paul Hames
What brought these three various things together?  Smiles.
 What makes people smile?  Food.
Y'all know how much I love my camera.  I love the way it connects me to the world.
My blog is obviously very photo heavy.  Which is why I'm so embarrassed to admit to anyone
that I always shoot on automatic.  I've tried manual a few times but I have a complete brain block.
So you can imagine my reaction when Paul instructed us first thing to turn our cameras to manual.
Terrified and excited, all at the same time.
For the next few hours, my camera was on manual!  I was very tempted to turn it back.
But, I resisted.  And I'm actually pretty proud of the results. 
Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

After sitting us down and taking us through the basics,
we all walked over to the Kerb Food Market at King's Cross to
try out our new skills with the camera and have some lunch.

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Before turning us loose, we had one more lesson on Capturing the Perfect Smile.
Here are the tips from Paul:
  • Don’t say smile. This is the worst thing you can say. It will produce a false smile and is unimaginative.
  • Engage with your subject. Make friends. Appear interested but also be yourself and genuine. Make your subject feel special and tell them how easy they are to work with. This will put them at ease.
  • Clichés do work. Hands on hips makes someone project and feel more comfortable. You can also make them look round then back again with different smiles.
  • Make sure you’re smiling and projecting positively yourself. It’s infectious.
  • Say something funny. We all have a good joke or a story. This is otherwise known as an icebreaker. Do everything you can to get that smile.
  With beautiful models like these three, it wasn't hard at all to capture that perfect smile.

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Melanie from Sunny in London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Sarah from The Wanderblogger

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Mandy from Emm in London

Then it was time to check out the food offerings.

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

I'm much more comfortable photographing food rather than people.
But, I did find one willing subject.

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

This is what I had for lunch from Bill or Beak.
It was amazing!  Shredded duck and pork in a Vietnamese dressing with coriander,
chili and mint salad topped with tempura shallots.
It tasted even better than it looks which is fantastic.

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

Healthy Smiles Photography Workshop at Kerb, London

It was a fabulous day which all combined to make
taking my camera from auto to manual not nearly as scarey as I expected.

Photo courtesy of Joe Blogs
 Simply Health provides affordable healthcare with a focus on exceptional personal customer service.
They have over 3 million customers and their services include Simply Dental Plan.

Thanks so much to Simply Health, Joe Blogs and Paul for a day full of smiles.


 Do you have any tricks for capturing the perfect smile?

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